This section holds an archive of links to chats held in 2022.

9/20/2022: Hope

For many Survivors, sometimes Hope is all we have to keep us going. How do we keep Hope alive? What happens when we lose Hope? What does it mean to have Hope?

9/13/2022 Touch

Touch is a basic human need. Touch raises many issues for Survivors. We can be triggered by a pat on the back, a hug. How do we deal with Non Sexual Touch? 

9/6/2022 - no chat this week

8/30/2022: Self-Trust

Survivors have major trust issues. Trusting others is one thing. We need to Trust ourselves. Our memories, feelings, instincts. How do we learn to Trust the one person that matters the most?

8/23/2022: Self Sabotage

We all are guilty of Self Sabotage, especially survivors.  Why can't we accept good things? Why are we sometimes our own worst enemy?

8/16/2022: no chat this week

8/9/2022: Facts and Myths about CSA and Trauma

There's a lot of stigma, lies and Myths about #CSA and Trauma. Let's shed light and counter them with truth. What are the ones that really set you off?

8/2/2022: Nature and Healing

When the stress of life and trauma get to be too much, we often turn to Nature for respite. What are your experiences with Healing in Nature?

7/26/2022: No chat this week

7/19/2022: Body Image

As we peel off the layers of winter, Body Image Issues may resurface. We may not like what we see in the mirror. How do we learn to love and accept our bodies?

7/12/2022: Male Survivors

Survivors face many challenges. Stereotypes and stigmas persist about all Survivors, especially Male Survivors. How can we best support each other? 

7/5/2022: no chat this week (July 4 holiday)

6/28/2022: Roe v Wade

This week's #SurvivorTough Chat will deal with the Supreme Court's decision to overturn Roe v Wade. It has been triggering, especially for Survivors.

6/21/22: The Summer

Warm weather, sunshine. Summer isn't a panacea for everyone. What are some of the challenges Survivors face during Summer? 

6/14/2022: Anxiety

#Anxiety is part of the human condition. For many of us it can be debilitating. How do we cope with Anxiety? What helps us when we are paralyzed by Anxiety?

6/7/2022: Emotions

#SurvivorTough Chat recently talked about Numbness. As the numbness recedes, we know we are feeling something but can't accurately describe it. How do we learn to Identify Emotions?

5/31/2022: A CheckIn

5/24/2022: Numbness

"I have become Comfortably Numb." (Pink Floyd) The dark bliss of Numbness helps us through trauma. It then becomes an unbearable weight which prevents us from living. How do we learn to feel again?

5/17/2022: Motivation

We get so drained and weary that finding Motivation is challenging. What can we do to Motivate ourselves to keep healing, growing and simply get things done? What Motivates you?

5/10/2022: No chat this week

5/3/2022: Mindfulness

When we practice Mindfulness, we are fully present in the moment. Mindfulness encompasses many techniques. What are the ways in which we can practice Mindfulness?

4/26/2022: The Narcissist

Most of us have had at least one #Narcissist in our lives at some point. Abusers are classic Narcs. How do we deal with them? How do we heal the damage they caused? How do we escape them?

4/19/2022: Toxic Shame

Toxic Shame is one of the biggest issues for Survivors. It affects every area of our lives. We view ourselves through the lens of Toxic Shame. How do we learn to heal our Toxic Shame?  

4/12/2022: Making Decisions

Survivors often have trouble with Decision Making which is a vital life skill. What are some tools we can use in order to make healthy decisions?

4/5/2022: Asking for Help

Asking for Help and Support can be hard. Many of us have reached out in the past with bad results. So we learn to deal with things alone. How do we overcome our fears to get the Support we need?

3/29/22: Dissociation

Dissociation can be one of the ways our mind copes with trauma. It's usually an involuntary response but can be voluntary. What skills do we need in order to cope with Dissociation?

3/22/22: How Trauma affects Memory

Trauma affects Memory. Memory loss can be a defense/survival mechanism which helps protect us from what we aren't ready to process. How can we find the missing pieces?

3/15/22: Projection

Projection is displacing one's emotions and/or traits onto another. It can be abusive and toxic. Self awareness helps us to not project. How do we deal with people who Project onto us? 

3/8/2022: Parenthood

Parenting is hard under the best of circumstances. What are the challenges Survivor Parents (or aunts / uncles etc) face? 

3/1/2022: Window of Tolerance

When we are in our Window of Tolerance we are able to function effectively. How do we stay within that window? How do we cope when we are on either side of it?

2/22/22: Depression

Depression is very common in Survivors. How do we recognize the signs of Depression in ourselves? What are the ways in which we cope and treat this insidious illness?

2/15/2022: Grooming

Abusers are experts at Grooming. Looking back, the signs can seem obvious. What are some of the ways we were Groomed?

2/8/2022: Routines

Many of us are familiar with trying to function in chaos. Implementing and maintaining Routines gives us safety and continuity. Can Routines harm us?

2/1/2022: PTSD & C-PTSD

PTSD and CPTSD are common diagnoses for Survivors. What is the difference? What are the symptoms? Is it something we simply learn to live with?

1/25/2022: Resilience

Survivors are known for their Resilience. It hasn't been a choice but a matter of survival. How do we consciously build Resilience? Do we really get more Resilient as we get older?

1/18/2022: Conflicts

Conflict is a part of life. As Survivors, how do we handle conflict? Do we stand our ground or avoid it at all cost? How do we learn to handle conflict in a healthy way?

1/11/2022: Resolutions and Goals

Resolutions are common at the beginning of the year. It puts a ton of pressure on us which isn't always healthy. So how do we set realistic Goals? 

1/4/2022: Reflecting on Trauma

It's good to take stock of our lives every so often to reevaluate, see where we need to go and how far we have come. What does Reflection teach us? How do we sift through the good and bad?